I know I *should* be writing in my OD for this, but *shrugs* whatever works.
Question for any guys who read this: what compels you in asking about a completely random young woman's breast size? I realize not every single man WOULD do this, but as seeing that I've joined several places that allow pictures (ratemybody.com, gothicmatch.com, facethejury.com...all looking for friendship), one would assume that people READ the information given and see that not everyone is looking for sexual purposes.
Now, on ratemybody.com, there's a messaging system. Today, I was getting several messages from several guys. One of whom said this, "you look good. How big the titties?" After laughing at the poor man for the grammar in his sentence, I kindly told him it was none of his fucking business, and he left me alone. Similar cases in the AIM chat rooms, men asking me personal information they have no right in knowing.
What I'm wondering is why? There is no need in knowing how big or small a body part is, nor is there no need in seeing what kind of undergarnments are perferred by a woman (that question was asked by some random guy from the AIM chats). Yes, logic tells me not to sign up on these places nor visit them, however I have found several intelligent souls to have decent conversations with! In fact, they're now close friends of mine. I do enjoy a decently intelligent conversation, and chatting with other people so where's the crime in that? 75% of the time I'm hit on, or highly offended in some way. Worse, they take my pictures and run (aka: they don't chat after I send them). Am I doing something wrong? Am I in the bad place? Are my morals too strict or too strong?
Or is it that the capitalistic society of America just about greed and desire? Is this country today in a place where intelligence means nothing and being a whore is everything? Does loyalty and honor genuinely mean NOTHING now? By the people who are searching for online sex (including phone sex and having the desire to "hook up"), I'm "no fun". I do enjoy a good time, but not at the expense of my loyalty is being threatened! I'm convinced there is little decency in this world today.
So now I ask, what is your opinion? How do you all feel? Arguments, agreements? I'll stand by and wait.